We blame society forgetting the thing we only are the society
Aubaid Ahmed Akhoon
Today a friend and a well wisher of mine namely Sahil Sharifdin Bhat sent me a beautiful poem. My friend is author of various books like ‘100 Quotes’, ‘Lantern For The Youth’ and ‘Learn 75% Islam within 20 minutes’. After reading a poem I could clearly see the pain described in the poem in a poetic way, and after reading the poem I could see the reflection of the superstitions growing day by day in the society. The title “Will You Marry Me” also impresses the readers. Here I reproduce the poem (with the permission of my friend).
My income, home, car, and caste—all are small
Would you still like to marry me, my doll?
If yes, I promise I will treat you as a queen
And gift you floral crowns and earrings green
Our sleeping bed will be a lush green grassy floor
Which breeze sweeps, dew mops and poets adore
I promise to kiss your eyes before your tears fall
I will give you all my smiles and take your tears all
Our job will be to love ourselves and help others
We will respect all religions, races and cultures
Our children will be raised like birds and flowers
Our family will be cheerful and happy at all hours
We will trust the creator for all our needs
We will not judge others by their deeds
I will never hurt you and never leave you alone
And treat your flesh and bone as my own
We will create a small paradise on this earth
Will you marry me and let our kids take birth?
Marriage is a pure relationship, which is a natural pure system of fulfilling human psychological desires as well as increasing the human population or race. If we try to practice marriage in the Islamic way in the present age, the immorality that is growing in the society can be eliminated to a great extent. But in the present age we have gone far away from Islam.
Our beloved Prophet has taught us the methods of easy marriage. But we are not ready to adopt them in practice. We have made marriage difficult and illegal sexual relations easy, nowadays a government employee needs a government employee life partner and a non-government employee needs a government employee life partner. No matter how good your morals are, if you are not a government employee, it will take a long time for your marriage to be finalized.
A Husband wife relationship is based on love, no matter if you have a small source of income, but in the relationship if there is respect, sincerity, value, love, true feelings, for each other you can live happily even if you eat simple food.
Remember, you can buy a velvet bed with money, but not a good night’s sleep. Parents should prioritize morals and good upbringing when determining their children’s relationship. If the sources of income are less then by the grace of Allah it can be increased tomorrow but if you compromise with the basic elements i.e. morality then such relationships do not last long..
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– Columnist is Working as Sr Edp head at DD Target PMT Parraypora India’s Reputed institute For Medical/JEE Coaching and can be reached at akhoon.aubaid@gmail.com
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